Utah GOPer Spencer Cox Apologizes to LGBT Community

Utah’s Republican lieutenant governor Spencer Cox might have been the last person anyone expected to speak at a vigil for victims of the Orlando shooting. But he did just that on Monday and even apologized for his past behavior. Cox acknowledged that as a straight white, Republican man he was not the most obvious choice to speak at the vigil. But he said he was incredibly moved and felt the need to apologize. Here’s a portion of his speech courtesy of KSL.com

I grew up in a small town and went to a small rural high school. There were some kids in my class that were different. Sometimes I wasn’t kind to them. I didn’t know it at the time, but I know now that they were gay. I will forever regret not treating them with the kindness, dignity and respect — the love — that they deserved. For that, I sincerely and humbly apologize.

Over the intervening years, my heart has changed. It has changed because of you. It has changed because I have gotten to know many of you. You have been patient with me. You helped me learn the right letters of the alphabet in the right order even though you keep adding new ones. You have been kind to me. Jim Dabakis even told me I dressed nice once, even though I know he was lying. You have treated me with the kindness, dignity, and respect — the love — that I very often did NOT deserve. And it has made me love you.

Now, you know a little something about hate. And you know a little something about persecution. But you also know something about loving, blessing and doing good. What our country needs more than ever is less politics and more kindness. If nothing else, as we can see here tonight, this tragedy has the potential to bring us closer than ever before.

And so may we leave today, with a resolve to be a little kinder. May we try to listen more and talk less. May we forgive someone that has wronged us. And perhaps, most importantly, try to love someone that is different than us. For my straight friends, might I suggest starting with someone who is gay.

To watch a video of Cox’s full speech go here. To buy a Proudly Yours Card to help relief efforts in Orlando, go here!