New Doc, “We Exist: Beyond Binary” To Premiere at Boulder Pridefest
- At August 19, 2016
- By danmclellan
- In News, Pride
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Viva the gender revolution! As we evolve so does our idea of gender so thank goodness for ongoing conversations on the topic. Like Lauren Lubin’s new film We Exist: Beyond the Binary which explores life outside the gender binary. Lauren’s work shatters traditional, antiquated constructs that defines gender as either male or female. Lauren identifies as gender neutral and uses they/them/theirs as their pronouns. Lauren says,“One of the most valuable assets that has helped me to fully come into my own is unequivocally education. Education is knowledge and it is such knowledge which has empowered me to understand myself as well as another. Gender identity and expression are two important components of a well-rounded education. I hope to shed light on both the importance and inclusion of having such education throughout the education system and simple ways we can begin to do just that.” The film will step into the spotlight as it kicks off Boulder Pridefest with two exclusive screenings on September 6 in Boulder. Lauren is also an avid runner and athlete. They made headlines in 2015 with their“WE RUN” campaign by becoming the first ever non-binary Marathoner, to come out and openly compete on the international stage in efforts to raise recognition in the sporting world. In November 2016, Lauren will be the first non-binary Marathoner to compete in the coveted New York City Marathon. Lauren is also the founder of New York City’s first non-binary running group, Andro Runners, which is dedicated exclusively to non-binary athletes.
For more information on the screenings of We Exist and Boulder Pridefest visit the website here!
Navy Names Ship After Harvey Milk
- At August 04, 2016
- By danmclellan
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Last week, the U.S. Navy confirmed that it will name a ship after LGBT activist and icon Harvey Milk. Milk served in the Navy during the Korean War as a diving officer and earned an honorable discharge in 1955. Per CBS News:
USNI News, a U.S. Naval Institute website, cited a congressional notification it obtained, signed by Navy Secretary Ray Mabus, as saying the second in a new class of fleet oiler ships would be named the USNS Harvey Milk.
An oiler is a combat logistics ship that can replenish other ships with fuel, ammunition and other supplies while underway, CBS San Francisco reports.
The John Lewis-class of ships, named for longtime civil rights activist Rep. John Lewis, D-Georgia, will be named after other civil rights leaders.
Others in the class still to be built include former Supreme Court Chief Justice Earl Warren, whose court desegregated U.S. schools, former Attorney General Robert F. Kennedy, women’s rights activist Lucy Stone and abolitionist and women’s rights activist Sojourner Truth.
Naturally, the decision by the Navy has already caused an uproar with conservative groups like the American Family Association who are asking followers to contact elected officials to express their outrage. Milk was the first openly gay politician to be elected to office in California when he was elected to the San Francisco Board of Supervisors in 1977. He and Mayor George Moscone were assassinated by former Supervisor Dan White inside San Francisco City Hall just 11 months later.
How Tim Kaine Changed His Mind on Gay Marriage
- At July 28, 2016
- By danmclellan
- In News, Politics
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Democratic vice presidential hopeful Tim Kaine wasn’t always a proponent of same-sex marriage. In 2005, he even ran an ad during his bid for Virginia governor which said, “I’m conservative on personal responsibility, character, family and the sanctity of life,” said Mr. Kaine, who won the race. “I’m against same-sex marriage.” Yet according to the Wall Street Journal, Kaine has changed his mind and has evolved into a powerful LGBT ally. Per WSJ:
Mr. Kaine has said his turning point came in 2006, when as governor of Virginia he opposed a state constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage in the state. The Virginia amendment passed in November 2006, but was nullified when the U.S. Supreme Court ruled in June 2015 that same-sex couples nationwide have a constitutional right to marry.
“My thinking has evolved on it because of people I know, so many gay and lesbian folks, some in longtime relationships who are great parents,” Mr. Kaine said, according to the Richmond Times-Dispatch.
Mr. Kaine also said he was concerned by the motivations of those supporting the state constitutional ban. “Some folks said to me candidly that this is really about trying to make the state inhospitable to gay people,” he said, according to the Times-Dispatch.
His first executive order as governor, signed the day he was inaugurated, banned discrimination against state employees, including on the basis of sexual orientation.
In the Senate, Mr. Kaine voted for legislation in November 2013 that would ban workplace discrimination against gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender workers.
Last night, Kaine accepted the nomination in Philadelphia. He stressed unity in his speech saying,”We are all neighbors. And we must love neighbors as ourselves.”
DNC Welcomes Most Pro-LGBT Platform Ever
- At July 26, 2016
- By danmclellan
- In News, Politics
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The 2016 Democratic National Convention kicked off earlier this week by approving the most pro-LGBT rights platform ever. Per the Washington Blade:
As convention chair Rep. Marcia Fudge (D-Ohio) presided, delegates at the Democratic National Convention approved the platform by voice vote. Although loud “nays” were heard, the overwhelming “yays” in favor of the platform carried the day.
Jessica Frisco, a Manhattan-based delegate pledged to Sen. Bernie Sanders (I-Vt.), said having LGBT inclusion in the Democratic Party “has always been really important to me.”
“Not that it’s become less of a priority, but I think the Democrats have always been pretty progressive on the issue, at least in recent years, and you know, it’s been Democrats that have been supporting that type of legislation in contrast to Republicans,” she said. “I guess I wasn’t really surprised to see that that was a big part of the platform and I wouldn’t be surprised to know that everyone in the Democratic Party supports that.”
The 55-page document has a specific LGBT plank titled “Guaranteeing Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Rights” and includes LGBT references in planks throughout the document.
The LGBT plank endorses LGBT comprehensive non-discrimination legislation (although it doesn’t explicitly address the Equality Act by name), condemns violence against transgender people, endorses the U.S. Supreme Court decision in favor of same-sex marriage and repudiates state laws seeking to undermine LGBT rights.
“Democrats applaud last year’s decision by the Supreme Court that recognized that LGBT people — like other Americans — have the right to marry the person they love,” the platform says. “But there is still much work to be done. LGBT kids continue to be bullied at school, restaurants can refuse to serve transgender people, and same-sex couples are at risk of being evicted from their homes. That is unacceptable and must change.”
In contrast, the platform adopted last week at the Republican National Convention seeks to reverse the Supreme Court decision on same-sex marriage, indicates supports for widely discredited “ex-gay” conversion therapy and supports state anti-trans bathroom laws.
Matt Hughes, a 25-year-old delegate from Chapel Hill, N.C., pledged to Hillary Clinton, said the LGBT inclusion is important to him both as a Democrat and a gay man.
“For me as a Democrat, it’s important, but also as a gay man that we have these ideals in our party’s platform about non-discrimination in terms of employment and transgender rights and really everything,” Hughes said, “especially when you compare and contrast it to the Republican Party platform that was passed last week, which is definitely the most anti-LGBT platform that the Republican Party has ever put forward.”
Hughes said he helped draft a North Carolina platform that included similar language, which he said is important because of the recently enacted House Bill 2 in the state. That law bars pro-LGBT city ordinances and prohibits transgender people from using the restroom consistent with their gender identity.
“That language says to me that for the second time in four years, that on LGBT issues, North Carolina is on the wrong side of not just fairness and equality, but also just the wrong side of history,” Hughes said. “And I think that the Democrats have always stood up for the marginalized and oppressed in our communities, and so having language that is so strongly in favor of rights for our transgender brothers, I think, is very important.”
In what’s being called “the gayest DNC ever”, the event also has a record-breaking number of LGBT delegates in attendance this year, appearances by many LGBT speakers and a landmark celebration being thrown by The National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce.
WATCH: New Ad Hopes to Change Minds About Transgender Equality
- At July 12, 2016
- By danmclellan
- In News, Orlando, Politics
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Set to air during next week’s Republican National Convention, a television commercial illustrates the bigotry and unfairness that transgender people face when wanting to use the restroom. Mara Keisling, the executive director of the National Center for Transgender Equality, wrote about the ad for Advocate.com:
The National Center for Transgender Equality is part of Fairness USA, a partnership that includes the Freedom for All Americans Education Fund, the Movement Advancement Project, the Equality Federation, the Equality Ohio Education Fund, and the National Center for Lesbian Rights. Today we are launching a major public education campaign — the first of its kind — to raise awareness of the need for protections for transgender people across the United States.
The centerpiece of the campaign is an ad that will be aired during the Republican National Convention. The ad depicts mistreatment and harassment that many transgender people across the country have faced and continue to face when they need to use the restroom.
Newly released survey data from NCTE shows that 59 percent of transgender people have avoided bathrooms in the last year because they were afraid of problems like being confronted by others. A shocking one in 10 (12 percent of) transgender people report they have been harassed, attacked, or sexually assaulted in a bathroom in the last year, and one-third of transgender people have avoided drinking or eating so that they did not need to use the restroom. In the majority of states, restaurant and store managers can legally stop transgender people from using bathrooms that match the gender they live as every day — or kick them out of their restaurant or store just for being transgender.
This is appalling, but we are no longer fighting this battle alone. Much like the state-by-state marriage equality battles, we have seen that when people get to know their LGBT colleagues, neighbors, and friends for who they are, their opposition weakens and their support grows. Today, as more transgender men and women step forward to tell their stories, and parents advocate for their transgender or questioning children, negative attitudes are challenged and hearts and minds open up. In truth, we’re a mishmash community like everyone else — some of us are raising children, most of us are regular working folks, and some of us are serving in the military.
Those who support us see us for who we are – people. And in the same way that they’ve opened their hearts and minds, so too have voters across the country. Just last month, Quinnipiac University released findings from three swing states in the presidential race — Florida, Ohio, and Pennsylvania — showing that support for transgender people is on the rise.
The poll found that 48 percent of Floridians, 43 percent of Ohioans, and 49 percent of Pennsylvania voters support the rights of transgender people to use the public bathroom that corresponds with their gender identity. And one could argue that the rise from just a month earlier, when CNN and Gallup found national support hovering at or below 40 percent, comes at a time when the so-called bathroom debate has gotten ugly.
Transgender people are deserving of the same rights and protections that every other American citizen enjoys and, frankly, thinks little about. At a time when the world can seem both dangerous and uncertain, and after the tragedy that took place during Latin Night at Pulse nightclub in Orlando, where LGBT patrons were heartlessly gunned down, it’s time to focus more on our shared values and less on our perceived differences.
So many people, LGBT or not, have experienced some level of discrimination at some point or another, and no one goes back looking for more. We dismantle the hate with unity and compassion, but we also need protections under the law whether that’s in employment, accommodations or, yes, being able to use the bathroom that matches who we are.
Puerto Rico Unveils Monument to LGBT and Orlando Victims
- At July 10, 2016
- By danmclellan
- In News, Orlando
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A touching and timely tribute came out of Puerto Rico last week. Here’s the story from Pink News:
Last week, Puerto Rico unveiled its first LGBT monument, which proclaims “Love is love, is love, is love…” and also serves as a memorial to the lives lost in the shooting at Orlando’s Pulse nightclub.
The monument is located in San Juan’s Third Millennium Park, at the entrance to the Escobar the Sixth Stadium, and is made up of seven rectangular columns in the colours of the rainbow.
This vibrant memorial is particularly resonating for the US territory because out of the 49 victims killed in Orlando, 23 were Puerto Rican.A plaque at the base of the monument highlights the names of Puerto Rican victims, with the other 26 victims also listed below.
Alongside the names, there is a phrase in Spanish that references Puerto Rican playwright Lin-Manuel Miranda’s moving speech from the 2016 Tony Awards – given just hours after the shooting.
The text reads: “This tribute to life strengthens our commitment to fight hate — the product of homophobia — with love and respect. Our slogan resounds in all our hearts: Love is love, is love, is love…”
The monument was unveiled during San Juan’s Pride celebration, where Mayor Carmen Yulín said: “Today, we celebrate life. We must work together to eradicate discrimination and homophobia.
“We must raise our voice for justice, and the equality of each of us who are human. We must aspire to have a country where everyone is equal, and no one is judged for who they love.”
The monument’s dedication took place almost exactly one year after Puerto Rico adopted marriage equality.
However, despite the island making some progress regarding LGBT rights, homophobia is an ongoing problem in the US territory.
Following the attack in Florida last month, Orlando Latino reported that the father of one of the Puerto Rican victims did not want to claim his child’s remains because he was ashamed of his son’s homosexuality.
The publication says this highlights an ongoing problem within the Latino community, where hatred towards the LGBT community is still prevalent – especially in Puerto Rico.
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Teen Comes Out at Disneyland and Her Story Goes Viral
- At July 08, 2016
- By danmclellan
- In Coming Out, Fun, News
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Sometimes a family trip to the amusement park can be really special and in the case of 16-year-old Gina sometimes that trip can become a global sensation. Gina visited Disneyland in California earlier this summer. Before their trip, Gina created a rainbow-colored sign which read, “I’m Gay!” and smuggled it into the theme park. She held the sign until the perfect moment and that moment came when the duo was riding Splash Mountain. As the log ride plunged to its watery finale, Gina held up her sign to be captured by cameras. Mom got the message as they perused the souvenir shop monitors. Posting the photo on Twitter, she wrote: “this is how I came out yesterday lolol”. The post now has nearly 10,000 likes.
In an interview with Huffington Post, Gina said, “I couldn’t have ever asked for a better response from my family. I’m truly so lucky to have such amazing support from all of my friends and family. It made this process go much smoother than I could’ve ever imagined!” She told others in the closet: “It’s an overwhelming process, so just make sure you’re comfortable with who you are and make sure you’re prepared for questions or reactions people may have. I also know it’s sometimes hard to tell if you’re ready or not, so just be sure to give yourself time to really think about if you’re prepared.” Gina told Buzzfeed the reaction to her photo has been “amazing but overwhelming.” “I never expected it to blow up like this,” she said. “This Twitter account was just my spam account where I posted random fangirl stuff but I decided it couldn’t hurt to post it and the result was absolutely amazing.”
She said she has been very touched at all the nice comments she has received. “People have responded saying I’ve inspired them to do the same thing, which I think is the coolest part of it all,” she said.
Paris Pride Celebrates Trans Rights
- At July 07, 2016
- By danmclellan
- In News, Pride
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Marche des Fiertés, Paris’ annual LGBT Pride parade took place last Saturday. With street performers, protesters and partiers, Paris’ pride looked a lot like celebrations across the globe. Except one thing was different this year. According to Washington Blade,
For the first time ever, Inter-LGBT, the group that organized the annual event, allotted the most prominent spot in the parade, which is usually reserved for politicians and celebrities, to emphasize trans rights.
The Gay and Trans Collective Association for Equality, an LGBT group known by the French acronym ACTHE, marched front and center. It brought attention to the issues facing the transgender community with this year’s motto: “The rights of trans people are in a state of emergency: Stop forced sterilizations! Stop violence! Stop insecurity!”
French Culture Minister Audrey Azoulay and Paris Mayor Anne Hidalgo were among the prominent politicians who took part.
“Our city will always be a bulwark against homophobia because openness and tolerance are part of its DNA,” Hidalgo told Têtu, a French gay magazine.
Despite recent terrorist attacks in Paris, the city of lights wanted to celebrate pride. A shorter parade route and beefed up police protection were a few of the precautionary measures Paris took to make sure the parade was safe.
“This year’s Pride parade was under heavy protection, and all of us were determined for it to take place, despite the risks we had been warned about,” Flora Bolter, co-chair of the LGBT Center of Paris-Île-de-France, told the Washington Blade. “The atmosphere in the days leading up to the parade was quite electric, and for the first time we had to have security checks for all people entering the area. You could feel the tense determination everywhere.”
Bolter told the Blade that this year’s parade reinforced the necessity of equal protection under the law for LGBT people.
“This was a very political parade, with clear and urgent calls for action, and it was nonetheless a great success, in spite of many difficulties, and perhaps even thanks to them,” she said, “The very real possibility that our parade could be canceled made people realize how important it was to take part, be proud of who we are and face those who would silence us.”
Justin Trudeau Becomes First Prime Minister to March in LGBT Pride
- At July 05, 2016
- By danmclellan
- In News, Pride
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Over the weekend, the Toronto Pride Parade made headlines with a very special guest: Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau. Trudeau made history at the event by being the country’s first sitting Prime Minister to march in the parade. Per the Ottawa Citizen:
Other notable politicians marching include Ontario’s premier, Kathleen Wynne, and the mayor of Toronto, John Tory.
Before the parade, Trudeau attended an outdoor church service in the heart of the city’s gay village where he sang along to Lady Gaga’s “Born This Way.”
The parade wraps up a month of Pride festivities in Toronto, which saw entertainment heavyweights like George Takei and Lindsay Lohan participate.
But the month has also been shadowed with grief. In early June, 49 people — who were predominantly LGBTQ people of colour — were killed in a mass-shooting at the Pulse nightclub in Orlando, Fla.
The month’s celebrations were dedicated to the victims of the massacre, and there will be a moment of silence during today’s parade to remember them.
Shots of Trudeau at Pride have flooded social media since the parade. From LGBT police officers to parade entertainers, everyone wanted a picture with he prime minister. No one was more thrilled to snag a photo with Trudeau than Bassel McLeash, a gay Syrian refugee. McLeash expertly photo-bombed the Prime Minister and now his story has gone viral too! “Not in my wildest dreams would I ever have thought about having a day like this, marching next to the prime minister or marching in a Pride,” he said in an interview with CBC.

Send a card, Send Love to Orlando!
- At June 29, 2016
- By danmclellan
- In Cards, News, Orlando
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FINAL DAYS! Thru tomorrow Proudly Yours is donating 50% of all card sales to the Support Victims of Pulse Shooting GoFundMe.com page. The page has already raised over $6 million for victims of the June 12 massacre at Pulse nightclub but needs so much more. Equality Florida, “is collecting contributions via this GoFundMe page to support every single victim of the horrific shooting at Orlando’s Pulse Nightclub. This includes victims’ families, survivors, and those in the club who may not have suffered physical injury but in need of support. ”
And you can do your part by purchasing a Proudly Yours greeting card! Buy a card here or here and we’ll give half of the proceeds to Equality Florida. But hurry as the offer ends tomorrow!

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