Tokyo Ward Becomes First Place in Japan To Recognize Same-Sex Couples

While it’s not full-on marriage equality, the Shibuya disctrict in Tokyo, Japan is taking significant steps to recognize the rights of same-sex couples. According to CNN:

The government of Shibuya ward, one of the capital’s most famous shopping and trendy entertainment districts, passed ordinance on Wednesday paving the way for “partnership certificates” for same-sex couples, allowing them some of the rights of married heterosexual couples.

Same-sex partners who are registered with the district’s ward office will be able to hold visitation rights in hospitals and co-sign tenancy agreements.

Other advantages that heterosexual married couples enjoy, such as joint filing of taxes, are controlled by the federal government and are outside the remit of individual municipalities.

The certificates, which are not legally binding, won’t be issued until later in the summer but proponents of marriage equality say Shibuya’s actions are a step in the right direction.”It is not a marriage license and advantages will be limited but still better than nothing,” Gon Matsunaka, a gay rights activist, told CNN. “What is important for the LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) community in Shibuya is the ruling will make us visible in society. It could be a strong driver for Shibuya citizens to learn and know what kind of problems LGBT people are facing,” Matsunaka said. For an incredibly conservative country like Japan, Shibuya’s steps are considered to be progressive and a reason to celebrate for Tokyo’s LGBT community. Neighboring ward Setagaya has indicated it would look into following Shibuya’s lead, according to CNN. A recent poll found that as high as 70% of Japanese young adults in their 20’s and 30’s support marriage equality.

On such momentous progress we say, “Omedetōgozaimasu!” to our friends in Japan and you too can say “Congratulations!’ with one of our terrific cards.

Sooth Wedding Day Jitters With a Card

One of the things Proudly Yours customers love the most about our cards is how perfect they are for a variety of situations. Since Proudly Yours cards feature a beautiful black and white image paired with a quote, the cards can be used for any occasion. This got us thinking about weddings. So often on the “big day” couples are running around frantically and unable to stop and appreciate the amazing and miraculous moment that’s about to happen. With the onslaught of gift registries, showers, bachelor/bachelorette parties and the arrival of out-of-town guests, it’s easy to see why many marrying couples rarely get a moment to themselves until the honeymoon. Even a simple civil ceremony requires a lot of errands and sizeable “to do list.” Couple this with nerves and wedding day jitters and you’ve got a couple in desperate of a card.

That’s right, you heard us. A card. We are big believers that a little thoughtfulness goes a long way and this is true even on wedding days. Or maybe especially then. A card like A Long Conversation (pictured above), for example, captures what love and weddings are really about. The quote by French author André Maurois inside the card reads, “A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short.”What an incredible message to send to your fiancé before you tie the knot in front of your friends and family. Slip it in their suitcase or give to a sly groomsman to pass onto to your partner or have it waiting with some flowers back at the hotel. Letting the person you’re about to marry know how important they are to you is a beautiful thing. This card,and all Proudly Yours cards, celebrates the love between two people. And at the end of the day, isn’t that what weddings are really all about?

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Monday Meme: Straight

At March 30, 2015
By danmclellan
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The great plays of Tennessee Williams are endlessly quotable, hugely influential and, as it turns out, fantastic for amazing memes! Who knew? Before you start Googling to find out what Williams’ plays are currently on stage in your town, peruse our card gallery to see a variety of cards made just for you and the person who touches your heart.

Presbyterian Church Officially Recognizes Gay Marriage

At March 26, 2015
By danmclellan
In Gay Rights, Marriage Equality, News, Uncategorized
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Fantastic news came to Presbyterian gay and lesbian couples last Tuesday as members of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) voted to change the definition of marriage in the church’s constitution to include same-sex marriage. According to the New York Times, “The final approval by a majority of the church’s 171 regional bodies, known as presbyteries, enshrines a change recommended last year by the church’s General Assembly. The vote amends the church’s constitution to broaden marriage from being between ‘a man and a woman’ to ‘two people, traditionally a man and a woman.” After 30 years of debate on the church’s stance on homosexuality, leaders in the church like Rev. Brian D. Ellison are thrilled with the decision. “Finally, the church in its constitutional documents fully recognizes that the love of gays and lesbian couples is worth celebrating in the faith community,” Ellison said.

While not all members of the church support the outcome of the vote, LGBT Presbyterians see it as a victory. “Some of us are calling it liberation day,” said the Rev. William Blake Spencer, pastor of Ocean Heights Presbyterian Church in Egg Harbor Township, N.J., who is gay and voted with his presbytery on Tuesday. “It will be the last L.G.B.T.Q. issue that we debate and fight about, and finally our welcome comes without a ‘but’ or an ‘if.’”

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The Touch of Love

There are no two ways about it– we human beings need to be touched. Being held by your significant other at the end of a long day can be exactly what the doctor ordered. Science suggests that a friendly handshake, a warm embrace or even a gentle pat on the back can express gratitude, reduce stress and increase positivity and self-esteem. Further studies tell us that children who are held and touched from an early age have improved cognitive skills while senior citizens who receive therapeutic touching are less likely to exhibit agitated behaviors. Pets, friends and couples can all reap the positive benefits of touching. But what can you do when you’re not around to touch the person you love the most? Send a card, of course!

Our card, The Touch of Love (pictured here) is the ideal card to send your guy or gal if you’re not in town, swamped at work or just planning a romantic rendezvous for later. Available with either a female or male couple, The Touch of Love features sensual and unforgettable black and white photographs of a couples embracing. Inside the card is a quote from the inimitable Greek philosopher Plato. “At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet,” Plato says. If you’re person of few words, Plato’s words should help seal the deal for touching in the near future. If, however, you would like to add some poetic thoughts of your own, there’s plenty of room on the inside of the card to do just that.

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Monday Meme: Queer

At March 23, 2015
By danmclellan
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Gay icon, humorist, lesbian and bestselling author Rita Mae Brown nails it in today’s meme.

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Two Gay Groups Marched In Boston’s St. Patrick’s Day Parade– and Into History

Here’s something to celebrate–for the first time in 114 years, two LGBT groups marched in Boston’s St. Patrick’s Day parade on Sunday. OutVets and Boston Pride marched in the parade and ended a 20-year ban on gay groups.

Via The Associated Press & Towleroad:

“We march today for the memories of those thousands and thousands of people who went before us, some who went to their graves in the closet,” OutVets founder and leader and Air Force veteran Bryan Bishop told his group before the parade. He called it “the beginning of the mission of this organization to honor the service and sacrifice of every single LGBT veteran, their family, their allies and every veteran in this country who fought so selflessly to defend the rights that we hold dear.” …

Boston Pride member Freddy Murphy said the open inclusion of gay groups was a long time coming.

“I just remember watching the parade and kind of thinking it was hopeless, that my entire world was against me,” said Murphy, a Dorchester neighborhood native whose father was a Boston firefighter. “This is why I’m marching today.”

The parade also marked another milestone as it was the first time in 20 years that a mayor of Boston marched in the parade. Mayors and politicians boycotted the event every year since 1995 when the U.S. Supreme Court upheld the right of the Allied War Veterans Council, which organizes the parade, to keep gay groups out. Mayor Marty Walsh, along with Massachusetts Gov. Charlie Baker and Congressman Seth Moulton marched with OutVets.

“I’m thrilled that the St. Patrick’s Day parade is inclusive this year, and the addition of Boston Pride to the list of participants reflects the values of the South Boston neighborhood,” Walsh said in a statement. “With this year’s parade, Boston is putting years of controversy behind us.”

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Lucky You: Celebrate St. Paddy’s Day or Any Day With Proudly Yours

Happy Saint Patrick’s Day! Whether it’s a green sweater or a pitcher of green beer, we celebrate this auspicious holiday in a variety of festive and unusual ways. What with all of this talk of the luck of the Irish, lucky four-leafed clovers and pots of gold at the end of the rainbow, we thought that today is an incredible opportunity to tell our loved ones how lucky we are to have them in our lives.

When you are in love, everyday is an opportunity to celebrate your relationship so why not make St. Paddy’s Day a romantic holiday too? Regardless if you’re Irish or not, you can use the holiday as a moment to tell your significant other that you appreciate them. A festive green plant and one of our cards is a thoughtful way to take the drunken silliness out of today’s holiday and turn it into something special. Or slip a card to your loved one before you head off to the pub. Or if you’re not exactly feeling Irish today, give a card to a loved one who could use a little cheering up. With striking black and white images and thoughtful quotes on the inside, all the cards here at Proudly Yours are suitable for any occasion.

It’s been said that the best luck of all is the luck you make for yourself. While we are not guaranteeing that you’ll get lucky by giving one of our cards, a little romantic effort is always appreciated! Grab one of our cards today at one of these fantastic stores.

Monday Meme: Be Yourself

At March 16, 2015
By danmclellan
In Fun, Monday Meme, Quotations, Quote of the Gay
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Happy Monday! Here’s to being fabulously yourself!

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Say “I Do” To Great Wedding & Engagement Cards!

We here at Proudly Yours support all kinds of unions and we are thrilled that human history is evolving to the point that ALL couples can finally tie the knot. So why shouldn’t wedding gifts, engagement announcements and congratulations cards evolve too? We think it’s high time what we leave on the gift table be as fabulous and progressive as the couple we’re celebrating. The fact is with summer right around the corner and RSVP deadlines looming, now is the time to start thinking about wedding gifts ideas. Lucky for you, we have a few ideas.

Can’t Make It To The Big Day?

Scheduling can be a beast and we don’t always get to watch our loved ones walk down the aisle. Send your best wishes, fully loaded gift cards or poetic thoughts inside one of our great cards like “A Successful Marriage”, pictured above. Inside the card is a quote from writer Mignon McLaughlin which reads, “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” We can’t think of a better way to say “congratulations”.

Something Heartfelt for the Top Of The Box

Yes, it’s always nice to give a married couple something they really wanted from their gift registry but the ritual can feel a bit cold and commercial. Add a personal touch by placing one of our gorgeous cards (like The Someone You Can’t Live Without, pictured above) filled out with your own messages of love on top of the package.

Make An Announcement of Your Own

Perhaps you’re not planning on being a guest this summer but you’re planning your own wedding instead– mazel tov! To help break the news of your upcoming nuptials, our cards like The Golden Ring make for unforgettable engagement announcements. But why stop there? Proudly Yours cards can be used as wedding invitations, anniversary cards and “Thanks for marrying me” cards. The possibilities, like love itself, are endless! Order online or at these fine retailers.